Blogs by Ruhani Bachhal

Do you know that it's not just you who is wrapped in this feeling of inadequacy? The world is! At least all the adolescents in the world. Hola everyone! Wishing y'all a fantastic 2023 as another chapter begins :D Lately, out of nowhere, I found myself struggling with insecurities. Many of them. Reason if I were to explain, I just couldn't. I questioned my individuality. And my biggest mistake was that I didn't talk about it with my parents and now that would be called 'intentional helplessness', which wasn't wise at all. My insecurities took away the best of me and my state was similar to that of a boiling frog. My mental health became a blunder. One reason that made it worse was pulling all-nighters to prepare for my examinations and trash-canning my body clock. Feeling I wasn't enough to stand all by myself in public, at one point, I had lost all motivation in me. I couldn't care less about what I looked like to others. I didn't even try neglec...

 “ Even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise again…’’ Horrid faces, starving stomachs, broken hearts, threadbare treatments and everything that we experienced left us torn apart. However, everything has to have an end and so this cruel phase had one too. And with it, the Covid-19 Pandemic left us a number of meaningful chapters to keep re-reading for life.  Before the gordian knot was cut, we realized the significance of perspective during the pandemic. As its scent took over the air and lockdowns were announced, the world shut down but we did not stop because ahead of us laid countless things to discover, both justified and groundless. Thus, above all, the pandemic trained our mindsets into how to see the good in every situation. With a mindset like that came optimism and patience. We manifested the good and waited for it enduringly when at last we could convince ourselves for a life time that good things take time that is always worthy. Many of us even lost our l...

Hi everyone! I hope you are doing great as ever. Bienvenue ici! So, what would I say to my younger self? And why only her? From my very childhood, just like others, I longed to be a teenager and live a life that precise. I remember fantasising about what all it would be like after growing up and that is why I would love to share with you all what shouldn't be left unsaid to my younger self if I was ever given a chance to meet her. - " Growing up isn't a disaster as the internet explains, and yes, just don't trust the internet because it is a stupid place. In fact, the experience is lovely. You get more creative and perfect at handling yourself. Life will give you a number of camelbacks, but you know what, things will seem to fall in place right after and you will learn that every literal thing happens for a reason.  You will be sometimes taken to task for time management. Weakness? Procrastination. You will try your best to improve, however, ... never mind. I am more t...

Hey everybody! How've you been doing lately? I am Ruhani Bachhal and welcome to a new post.  So, all of us certainly have a quote that we bow to, that brings us up again, that gives us a buoyancy in spirit. If not, it still isn't that we don't read them, so we all have, for at least once, admired a couple of quotes. The quotes that we go along with may be religious, spiritual, philosophical, factual or perspective-based. It can even be a dialogue! Moreover, it's not necessary that the quote has to be some text already existing but you can even write one of your own. Now I would like to introduce you to the quote that I look to:- One fallen leaf doesn't mean the forest has died. This one has been making a great impact on me since the very day I read it for the first time. Being a student, it is often having downs. It hasn't to be a special day when it's just low-key satisfying but every second day when there is a lot of work and I can't get it done. That ...

ਇੱਕ ਸਫ਼ਲ ਰਾਸ਼ਟਰ ਆਪਣੀਆਂ ਮਜਬੂਤ ਜੜ੍ਹਾਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਨਾਗਰਿਕਾਂ ਦੀ ਮਿਹਨਤ, ਹਿੰਮਤ ਤੋਂ ਪ੍ਰਾਪਤ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ । ਹਰ ਕੋਈ ਚਾਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਉੱਥੋਂ ਦੇ ਲੋਕ ਵੱਧ ਤੋਂ ਵੱਧ ਪੜ੍ਹੇ – ਲਿਖੇ ਹੋਣ ਤੇ ਦੁਨੀਆਂ ਵਿੱਚ ਪੜ੍ਹੇ - ਲਿਖੇ ਦੇਸਾਂ ਦੀ ਸੂਚੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਦੇ ਦੇਸ਼ ਦਾ ਨਾਮ ਪਹਿਲੇ ਨੰਬਰ 'ਤੇ ਹੋਵੇ । ਇਸ ਲਈ ਅੱਜ ਦੇ ਤਕਨੀਕੀ ਯੁੱਗ ਵਿੱਚ ਰੋਜ਼ੀ - ਰੋਟੀ ਕਮਾਉਣ ਲਈ ਹਰੇਕ ਵਿਅਕਤੀ ਨੂੰ ਸਹੀ ਸਿੱਖਿਆ ਪ੍ਰਾਪਤ ਕਰਨ ਦੀ ਲੋੜ ਹੈ ਭਾਵੇਂ ਕਿ ਉਹ ਔਰਤ ਜਾਤੀ ਨਾਲ ਸੰਬੰਧ ਰੱਖੇ ਜਾਂ ਮਰਦ - ਜਾਤੀ ਦਾ ਹੋਵੇ, ਪਰ ਅਫ਼ਸੋਸ ਅੱਜ ਵੀ ਸਾਡੇ ਦੇਸ ਦੇ ਕਿਸੇ ਨਾ ਕਿਸੇ ਕੋਨੇ ਵਿੱਚ ਲੜਕੇ ਨੂੰ ਪੜ੍ਹਾਉਣਾ ਹੀ ਜ਼ਰੂਰੀ ਸਮਝਿਆ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਲੜਕੀ ਨੂੰ ਨਹੀਂ। ਸਗੋਂ ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਹੋਸ਼ ਸੰਭਾਲਦਿਆਂ ਹੀ ਘਰੇਲੂ ਕੰਮਾਂ ਵਿੱਚ ਲਗਾ ਦਿੱਤਾ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਪ੍ਰੰਤੂ ਇਸ ਭੇਦ - ਭਾਵ ਨੂੰ ਖ਼ਤਮ ਕਰਦੇ ਹੋਏ ਲੜਕੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਉਨਾਂ ਹੀ ਜ਼ਰੂਰੀ ਸਮਝਿਆ ਜਾਵੇ, ਜਿੰਨਾ ਜ਼ਰੂਰੀ ਲੜਕੀਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਪੜ੍ਹਾਉਣਾ ਸਮਝਿਆ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਉਹ ਸਿਰਫ਼ ਘਰੇਲੂ ਕੰਮਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਕਰਨ ਵਿੱਚ ਹੀ ਮਹਿਰਤਾ ਨਹੀਂ ਸਗੋਂ ਆਪਣੀ ਜੀਵਨ - ਸ਼ੈਲੀ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਬਦਲਣ ਦੀ ਹਿੰਮਤ ਰੱਖਦੀਆਂ ਹਨ । ਉਹ ਆਪਣੀ ਸਮਰੱਥਾ ਤੇ ਸ਼ਕਤੀ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਪਹਿਚਾਣਨ ਦੀ ਸਮਝ ਰੱਖਦੀਆਂ ਹਨ । ਉਹ ਕਿਸੇ ਵੀ ਖੇਤਰ ਵਿੱਚ ਕਿਸੇ ਨਾਲੋਂ ਪਿੱਛੇ ਨਹੀਂ ਸਗੋਂ ਉਸਨੇ ਹਰ ਖੇਤਰ ਵਿੱਚ ਖੂਬ ਮੱਲਾਂ ਮਾਰੀਆਂ ਹਨ । ਇਸ ਲਈ ਸਾਡੀ ਹਰ ਦੇਸ - ਵਾਸੀ ਦੀ ਜਿੰਮੇ...

  Introduction Gender partiality is a vast concept in India. Every one in three girls is missing in India due to sex selection. The mentioned ratio may look mere but if we see it on a larger scale, 46 million females go missing in India every year. In the same way, a huge number of transgender children are abducted in India every year. Gender partiality has caused the country to suffer a huge imbalance in the population. The majority of homes in India prefer sons in the family which results in the loss of women and transgender people. Although many measures have been taken up by the Government, still we lack in the provision of equality.   Why inequality? The sick mentality of people causes them to standardize the abilities of a gender. ‘Females are supposed to take care of home and kids, not work’; ‘It’s a man’s job to work and earn, home-caring isn’t their part’. Such judgements result in uplifting partiality among different sexes. Girls are moulded to be future mo...

Still comes to me as an unbelievable message that we've already completed 1 year of writing-posting-reading. Yay! My Blog turns 1!  It, at no cost, was possible without your support and love to achieve this. It's a lil' big thing for me, the writer, that we've struck a great milestone. Thank you! NGL, I never thought that we'd be able to complete a year this way, for, I usually give up just too quick if I think I don't have enough time. But it was you people, who bucked me as I received really pretty comments and as it grew, I received worldwide viewers too! [Oh yes, stepping out of India and covering the globe on this station of mine was just too bewildering :D] I remember the previous year, right on this date, it clicked to me that I wanna write, I wanna BLOG! Really unaware of what 'Blogging' was, at very first. It shares a crazy story of how I decided to pursue blogging and what it really had been like before. So:- My online classes just got over and...